Thursday, April 26, 2012

Packing this stage up...

Packing this stage up...
...just to begin unpacking next Tuesday in our new HOME!

Psalm 25:4-5


Psalm 25
4 Make Your ways known to me, LORD; 
teach me Your paths. 
5 Guide me in Your truth and teach me, 
for You are the God of my salvation; 
I wait for You all day long. 

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

A (Fairly Lame) Ode to Mothers


Last night at MoPS, Barie Ferguson (our awesome pastor's wife) shared this totally notable poem with us:

A (Fairly Lame) Ode to Mothers by Jen Hatmaker

An ode to the marvelous woman called "Mother"
Though not one of us is exactly like another.
From the second we're born to the minute we die
Our preferences are as limitless as stars in the sky.

We might have been perfectly gracious before
But childbirth entered us in the Mommy War.
Rather than letting everyone else be
We criticize parenting that isn't exactly like . . . me.

So once and for all let me put this to rest
None of us owns the title of "best."
Natural childbirth does not make you a hippy 
Epidurals are not just for women who want to feel trippy.
In a bathtub with a doula or in a hospital bed
We all got a baby with limbs and a head.

Nursing is great if nothing goes wrong
But some nipples turn inward and refuse to play along.
This is a choice for each mom - it's her route
So it's just A + B and everyone else can C their way out.

Schedules and timers do not make you cruel
Feeding on demand does not make you a fool.
In the nursery with a monitor or in the family bed
Every chick gets to pick where her baby lays his head.

If I see one more mom roll her eyes at "organic . . . "
"Partially hydrogenated" throws some of us into panic.
But neither judge Sonic burgers and fries
Some of us just want to enjoy food before we die.

Preschool, home school, public, or Montessori
Listen, my friends, and I'll tell you a story:
Two moms differed on favorite school trends
Their kids turned out pretty much the same. The end.

If a girl gets the title of "mom" accidentally
The worst thing we can do is treat her judgmentally.
How about some love, some help, some advice?
She needs our love and we shouldn't think twice.

Discipline through various methods will prevail
Look, we're all just trying to keep our kids out of jail.
These things are just preferences, not right or wrong
What matters more is teaching our kids to get along -
To love and to share, to speak gently and kind,
To obey so that mom won't go out of her mind.

Showing them Jesus is our common ground
Teaching them how he can always be found.
He's present in public school and Waldorf (so trendy)
He's over at Whole Food but also at Wendy's.
Jesus never cared about these sorts of things
It's our hearts that he wants and the worship we bring.

It's time for us moms to declare a truce
Regardless if we buy Capri Sun or 100 percent juice.
My way is not your way, and your way isn't mine
But both of our kids will turn out just fine.

Rather than judging and looking down our noses
Let's enjoy the common ground motherhood poses.
As believers, we all love the same good Lord
We all have children who tell us "I'm bored."

We all need more sleep that these tiny five hours
Most of us struggle to find time for a shower.
We haven't been to the bathroom alone in an age
Our mothers have all told us, "Relax, this is just a stage."

We all love our babies so much we could die
We'd take a bullet for each one without batting an eye.
Though we are different , we're in the same tribe
Motherhood requires a similar vibe-
Love and affection, sacrifice and grace
Laugher, which keeps the whole mechanism in place.

Though different, by the grace of God, I suspect:
ALL our children will rise up and call us collect.

Monday, April 23, 2012

Gearing up for Mother's Day :)

As we gear up for mother's day, I wanted to share this terrific trifecta of baby Claire birth-day photos. 
They are so precious to me because it shows 4 generations of Claire's maternal bloodline. 
 Left to right:
Carolyn Haggard Barney, Barbara's mom
Barbara Barney Thompson, Natalie's mom
Natalie Thompson Hubert, Claire's mom
Claire Hubert
My grandmother (Kiki) and my mom are beautiful women, inside and out...
... And Claire inherited every bit of their beauty!

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Monday, April 16, 2012

And so it begins...


See you in a few weeks, Mr. Pink Bear!
Oh dear. This is only the beginning... 

Friday, April 13, 2012

This sweet lady...

This sweet lady is Claire's Didi. Claire is wild about her. So are we! See how she smiles at her Didi?
How blessed are we to have such a sweet Didi?!?

Meet Mickey!

We bought Claire a stuffed Mickey when we went to Disneyland last October. I was 6 months pregnant, but we were already in love with Baby Hubert! Claire and Mickey met today. Isn't that cute? Awww...

Monday, April 9, 2012

Friday night family movie dates...

The weekend family rituals are already beginning. Things like Friday night family movie dates are entering our schedules...

Joy in the morning and at night...

Good morning, Claire!



Good night, Claire!



Friday, April 6, 2012

Two Months

Happy 2 Months to the Chiquita Banana Baby!

Diaper size: 1
Clothes size: 0-3 months
Milestones: sucking fingers, cooing, looking intently and 'studying' people and objects

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Ahh, the sweet smell...

 Ahh, the sweet smell of...
spit up...

Last night, we took a moment to enjoy the weather after talking to the inspector and hearing the results for the stellar 1984 house. We will have to talk to the seller about some repairs we want them to cover, so we are *patiently* awaiting their reply. Don't we look patient? We are. Promise.

Monday, April 2, 2012

House--->Home?

I have never paid attention to 1980's architecture. I guess it never really caught my eye. I certainly NEVER thought I would end up in a home build in the 1980's...

BUT... Guess what?!? After a crazy bidding war with several unsuspecting twists and lots of praying (that if it is meant to be, it will be), we were finally able to put a contract on this beautifully remodeled 1984 home just steps from Brushy Creek. But the good news is that it has been completely remodeled with new flooring, new paint, new counter-tops, and new (STAINLESS STEEL!) appliances. My favorite part is the Master bedroom on the main floor that opens up on to a covered back patio overlooking a pretty sweet back yard... Guess you could say I'm in love :) 

We have the inspection today, so I'm hoping it all goes well! I know it is an older home which means it may have some expensive things that need fixing, so I am trying not to get too too too excited... EEEEE!